He dictates everything around norms and rules of conduct: what it feed, what to wear, whom to leave her room, and who can not do that one family member, and that the others. If a family has more children, tyranny begins to take features of acute jealousy. From the standpoint of three little kids, his brothers and sisters have no family no rights. The reverse side of the crisis outlined above features of the crisis of three years could plunge into confusion many happy parents infants or yearlings. But everyone, of course, is not so bad. Faced with similar symptoms, you should keep firmly in mind that the external negative symptoms – this is only the reverse side of positive personality change, main components and the basic meaning of any critical age. In each period of development, the child has a very specific, acceptable only for this age group needs, means, methods, and interaction with the world self-awareness. After serving his sentence, they must be replaced by a new – completely different, however, only possible in the changed situation.
The emergence of a new necessarily mean the withering away of the old, the rejection of already developed behaviors, interactions with the environment. And in times of crisis, as never again, is a great constructive work of development, the sharp, significant shifts and changes in the child’s personality. Unfortunately, for many parents ‘goodness’ of the child often depends on the degree of obedience. In times of crisis to hope it is not necessary. After going on inside the child changes, the turning point of his mental development can not pass unnoticed, not showing himself in the behavior and relationships with others.