Since the human being is a social being, to have a life filled with peace and harmony, both between people and between Nations, are required to maintain excellent relations between people, are people that handle relations between Nations. When the Nations maintain excellent relations, then the trade flourishes, cooperation increases and share the costs associated with development (research, development of infrastructure, etc.). This produces prosperity and peace for the people of the Nations and development for societies. In the personnel field, good relations with relatives, partners, co-workers, neighbors and all people produce inner peace, business win win, growth, happiness, security, etc. But history shows that in relationships, even in the best, some tensions that are detrimental to these relationships occur occasionally. When these tensions occur is necessary to address these issues very carefully, since any false step could further harm, relations. The best way to improve poor relations is to avoid damage to these.
I.e., should avoid creating situations that could damage relations. If the relationships are already complicated then, in most cases, the first step would be resorting to diplomacy. A timely Word attract and disarm anyone. If you can talk, and talking resolves the issue, then talk would be the solution. Unfortunately in some cases, it is not possible to speak with other people. Not so much because it is impossible, but rather for being too uncomfortable or painful.
What to do when the other person does not wish to speak, is not about to talk or is simply difficult to talk to her for any reason? Andrew Corentt says that if you want to improve relations with others, it is not mandatory to speak, does not require require them or ask them. To achieve change, he says, you must only act on one’s own, make changes in the own subconscious mindset of the person concerned. You are a being so powerful, that when you change, everybody follows it.